“If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you’re okay. Who watches out or you and wants the best for you. Who loves and respects you. Don’t let them go. People like that are hard to find.”Franz Kafka
It is the volume and the quantity of checking up on you if you are well and ok. The more redundant, the more that person loves and cares for you. Getting noticed by another person and loved sincerely is a rarity in these days of I-get-something-from-you-you-get-something-bigger-from-me.